Aspies are often labeled high functioning by default. Some people even seem to think it’s a compliment.
“You must be very high functioning. You don’t seem autistic.”
“Why, thank you. And you’re not especially ugly.”
Because, yeah . . . being told you’re “not that autistic” like it’s a good thing is hard to swallow.
Functioning Labels in Practice
Applying functioning labels to autistic people is problematic. Maybe an example will help illustrate why.
I’ll describe two autistic women, Mary and Joan. See if you can tell which one is high functioning and which one is low functioning:
Mary is a wife and mother. She’s been steadily employed since age 16, has a BA degree and runs her own small business. She exercises regularly and is health conscious. When her daughter was younger, she volunteered for parent committees, hosted sleepovers, coached softball and drove carpool. As the more detail-oriented spouse, Mary has always managed the family finances and investments. She has a diverse set of hobbies and pastimes that include dog training, target shooting, reading mystery novels and fiction writing.
Joan is a wife and mother too. Her marriage has been rocky at times, thanks to her undiagnosed ASD, and she has no close friends. Joan works at home, avoids speaking to people on the phone and prefers to spend most of her days alone. Joan sometimes needs to be reminded to brush her hair, shower or put on appropriate clothing before going out. She’s never negotiated a lease or car purchase by herself and has never lived on her own. She enjoys going to the zoo, vacations at Disney World, animated movies and has several stuffed animals that she likes to hug after a hard day.
It’s obvious that Mary is high functioning and Joan is low functioning, right? Continue reading Decoding the High Functioning Label