Doing What I Want Experiment: Week 2
Realizations from week 2:
24/7 self-improvement doesn’t work, or at least it doesn’t work for me. I’ve given myself permission to fall back on old habits occasionally if I’m feeling too vulnerable or uncertain. More on this in a future post because it feels important.
Convenience should not be a major deciding factor for fun activities. Fun or rewarding activities are worth investing extra effort in.
Being open to spontaneity is part of good decision making. “But I always . . .” and “But I never . . .” thoughts are not.
Being nice to myself is a valid reason for making a decision. I don’t need further justification.
For minor decisions, I don’t have to make the absolute best possible choice, I just have to make a choice I’ll be happy with. It doesn’t matter whether the Mai Tai will make me fractionally happier than the Margarita or I like the blue sweater slightly more than the red one. If I’ll be happy with either choice, I can choose on a whim and be done with it. I don’t have to try to be more happy or as happy as is humanly possible as the result of a decision. Buying a sweater is not the same as buying a car. Continue reading Monday Morning Musings (8/12)